Time and again

A really good friend of mine lost her father today, as always I never know what to say when faced with a situation like this. I always think words are inadequate in these situations. I mean let's face it you have no idea what the other person is going through. In retrospect you also realise that it's only a matter of time before it's you that loses someone important. That's the really scary part.

I consider myself fairly lucky. I've gone through all my life without losing anybody that I truly care for, something that I am very grateful for. The only loss that I've truly felt is that of Sasha. She meant a lot to me, and to this day the only person that made me hate God. I screamed at him for it, and to this day I remember the noises she made right before she went. She died well before her time. On the flip side, I know she's a lot happier where ever she is, after all she doesn't have my brother to worry about anymore.

When my Mom's dad passed away I'm sorry to say I didn't care one way or the other. I was sorry for my Mom's loss cause in a lot of way's she doted on him. I guess that's the connection father's and daughters share. I however did not see his loss as affecting my life one way or the other. The point is, there may be just a few people you care about in your life and you never quite realise when they are ready to take their leave.

Cliche as it is, take a moment to reflect and savor all the people that are still with you. All it takes is a snap of a finger and everything you know can be lost.

To my friend, I wish to pass on my deepest sympathy's and all my love. I just hope you know that if you ever need anything from me, I'll try my best to be there for you.