My First Closure

Its taken a while, but finally its done. I got what I've been waiting for, and its been a long time coming let me tell you. People always underestimate the value of closure. I never understood that, I've always believe that you need closure in everything you do, otherwise you will go on questioning everything around you and more importantly yourself. Without closure comes doubt.

It doesn't matter what you need it for. It could be for a job you quit because you didn't feel you were getting recognition (Go to the BOSS and let him know whose da man!), could be that you were a world famous athlete but failed to retire on a positive note (Michael Jordan ala 2002), could also be when you approached that HCHHSSTT at the bar and she refused to give you an answer (Silence is not always golden, I wish women would remember that!), and finally it could be that one relationship of yours that didn't work out because of circumstances and you've never known if it could work out (These are the worst one's they haunt you, they really do!).

Sometimes all it takes to get closure is a simple phone call (this is my favourite way!), sometimes a life altering event and sometimes you could just end up knocking on heavens door. How you get it doesn't matter, all that matters is that you have to move on. We all have our insecurities, why would you want to add to it?

Me, I got my closure and it was great. I'll be honest I knew I needed it, just didn't realise how much I needed it. While this all may seem soppy, sad and sentimental, all us Manly Men know that sometimes to be a man, you've got to admit accept the truth, not everything can be funny no matter how hard you try.

In the end all I know is next time I'm at a bar and I spot an HCHHSSTT, I'm going to get me some answers Clint Eastwood style.